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i have no thought during all as well as a removing to me
ive have sexuality issues in a past
i whim guys..let’s get which straight..ive usually fanciful guys as well as i do not whim girls as well as do not have correct feelings for them
porn turns me on
as in..lesbian porn
and exposed lady porn
not man porn
this is a usually thing which confuses me
and since it turns me on..i’d similar to to be in a lady upon lady situation
i do not consider ide wanna be in a attribute with one..just cos i do not whim em
but ide similar to to get upon a single n stuff..n have sex with one..i dunno how any times..maybe only a once..maybe a couple of times
im confused :/
someties i have dreas about girls fingering me or fondness me out as well as arise up feeling excitable as well as wet
am i only bi extraordinary or do i need to try more..
oh as well as im fifteen :/
btw im a girl..my name’s bex (short for rebecca)
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
Hey Bex I went through exactly the same thing its horrible so confusing. Some one told me that you dont need to be labled gay/bi or straight, Your Just you, be youself if you fancy girls then thats cool if you fancy guys thats cool and it’s cool if you fancy both or my other advice is experiment your never gonna know if you don’t try, Hope thats helped a little. =]
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
There are straight women who get turned on by lesbian porn, you know. You sound bicurious to me…
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
Are ya a girl or boy.. if your a boy: You are a very serious and bad problem.. oh and your gay..( no offence ) girl: then,. i have no idea.. But you also have a big problem..
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
You just need to take charge of your sexual impulse. It is possible to control and use only when and where appropriate–just difficult.
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
At your age, you’ve been exposed to a lot of stuff that you shouldn’t even know about in this manner.
You are going through puberty, which is hard enough. Why compound the issue by getting involved in a lesbian episode.
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
Well, you sound just like me.
You might be just a bit bi curious.
I love lesbian porn, it’s the only thing that really turns me on.
But I’m only attracted to boys and butch girls.
Anyway, you’re bisexual probably.
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
try exsperamenting. thats what i did. i thought i was a lesbian. but im not. if you find you do like these situations, then you may be bi.
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
Yea your definitely bi-curious…I say go for it with a girl…You don’t have to be in a relationship with a woman to want to have sex with them…
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
Well, simple answer would be:
If you don’t want to go out with girls, then you’re not lesbian or bi.
I’m pretty sure thats not an unusual thing, and porn is DESIGNED to turn you on, so yeah.
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
Don’t know how you’ll react to this..but maybe you have a lesbian spirit bothering you. Do you feel like something "comes over you" or "overtakes" you? I know most people don’t believe this can happen…but it can. I can’t remember what you call it. Google paranormal…o…I think it’s "incubus" and "succubus". Check it out at least. And if you think that’s what it could be…try to avoid it…don’t watch porn for one thing . I know you can’t do much about your dreams…but a lot of it comes from watching the porn. It just depends on you..if you really want to get rid of these feelings. It’ll be hard for you to have a healthy heterosexual (boy-girl) relationship if you don’t overcome these feelings. Good Luck. I just saw you’re 15…don’t let this destroy the rest of your life. Is it possible that someone molested you as a child? That sometimes starts thing like that to happen. Don’t just "let it happen"…please.
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
If you really fancy guys I think you may be a bit bi. However, a lot of straight girls (including my wife) gets more turned on by girl-girl porn than anything else. It’s the forbiddenness of it, or she imagines she is in that situation. I think also some women are very naturally loyal to their husbands or boyfriends, and don’t really want to look at other naked guys or imagine themselves having sex with another man because that would be cheating in their minds. Sexual attraction and feelings is a very complicated thing – you may like fantasizing about it, but when presented with an actual naked women who wanted to have sex, say "EEEW!" Best luck!
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
Everyone is straight. People choose to engage in homosexual behavior. Stop looking at porn. It’s degrading your mind.
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
You’re at an age where you’re still developing your sexuality. It’s natural to wonder and to be curious. Just because you enjoy girl-on-girl porn doesn’t necessarily make you a lesbian, because as you’ve clearly stated, you like guys and not girls.
But, on the flip side of THAT, your natural curiosity is only human, and you won’t really know which way you swing until you find yourself in that situation. It’s too soon for you to confine yourself to a sexual definition. You can be straight and still be bi-curious. When you cross the line and actually do something bisexual, and like it, and do it again, then maybe you would be labelled as bisexual. But labels aren’t cool, so just be yourself and do what makes you happy.
But you’re so young and there’s lots of time for you to figure it out!
Also remember, that sometimes the fantasy turns out to be better than when you actually get to do it. You might come to that point and discover that girls really aren’t for you.
Just promise to be safe.
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
I predict that you will someday make some straight guy VERY happy.
jojo9, you are the perfect example of why Christianity is really and truly evil. Killing people for having sex! You people are NUTS!
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
most ppl that r confused r 90% not stright ur bi or gay
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
I am going to assume by your question that you are in a female body right now
meaning you are a girl
geneticly
and this next part could seem a bit far out to you
but
I bet you are just coming from a life as a guy
but that most of your lives have been as girls
and I bet that the life as a guy was karmic for what you did as a girl
or in more words, I bet you were a pretty randy guy being everything that as a girl in some lifetimes you thought guys were terrible for
and that lifetime was completed
now you are a girl again in a regular female body
now, I am just some guy answering your question
but from what I have seen in life….. I highly advise you to stay "young" for as long as you are able to and not make ANY decisions about sexuality other than focusing on that you are female Now
(see I a a person that can get pretty ‘preachy’)
Observe well what is around you
hang with booth guys and girls but dont get too involved beyond heart affection
let yourself be free for a few more years and just TRUST yourself that you will continue evolving
the important part is to enjoy yourself without worry of what you might turn into later
then what you do as you mature into yourself could be far more in tune with what your greater desires of your spirit are aligned to
you are having the freedom dreams of the past life but interpreting them through the female body mind that you are in now is what I most see
you decided to come back as a female
dont waste that
but take your time!
……………………..
PS I agree with Patrick C
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
dangggg girlfriend, what the hellllll are u doing watching porn at your age? the problem with you is that u have seen too much too soon in your life. slow down. the media has thrown so much at us therefore it would appear as if our society has went to a modern day of Sodom and Gomorrah. our society makes it okay to try anything once, or more than once. it’s crazy. stay strong and don’t become a victim. i am 40+ yrs old and have never tried drugs a day in my life, not even marijuana.(with all the shiittt going on in this world i get high on life.) People find it hard to believe. I have never been drunk and don’t drink; it doesn’t appeal to my pallete. When i party, people swear that i am high or drunk. sometimes i wonder why those two things turn people on enough where it jeopardizes their life. i want to try it for experimental purposes just to see. but i don’t for fear of the consequence. the consequence could be… what if i like it? what if i get a hold of the wrong stuff and it messes me up for life? the same thing with sex… so much is thrown at you because of the media. just remember; treat your body as if it is a temple and not a temple of doom. you don’t want all kinds of people in your temple:-) the consequences that i have seen with people that are bicurious? you may not like it, but you have turned on a homosexual who does. your name will be, "mud" a lot of judgement because of curiosity. keep it in your fantasy or dreams. Usually when a fantasy comes true, it isn’t fun anymore. or do like me.. if i live to be 95, i am going to try damn near everything that our society is against just to see if i like it or don’t like it. by that age, i’ll be too tired and too old to give a damn what anybody thinks; god will just have to forgive me:-) in the mean time young lady, u are just a kid. you only have a few years left before you become an adult. enjoy your youth while you can. like virginity, once it’s gone, u can never get it back. u don’t have to try everything just because it’s there. or like clothes; just because they make it in your size does not mean u should wear it:-)
September 10th, 2011 at 9:41 am
You’re neither straight, gay, nor bi. You’re 15. Your hormones are raging. Don’t worry about it. You’ll be what you’ll be, which is probably straight since almost all humans are. Being a teenager sucks enough without having to beat yourself up over what your sexual orientation will end up being.
November 20th, 2011 at 4:41 pm
Just chill. I felt the same but it is simply being a teenager… I am going through the same thing, i watch porn and masterbate and love watching girl on girl and it is simply hormones.. Dont beat yourself up just let your body decide WHEN YOU ARE READY! dont force it or try and control it.. I crush heavily on guys and check girls out and i talked to my mum and she said it was normal and to just relax… Xo Bex
Ps dont let people say your arent normal or have a problem :)
February 14th, 2012 at 4:02 am
Hi I kno how u feel in secondry my friends were all so very wrong minded and so was every one elese. I was the innocent girl who had never had a boyfriend (which happened to be sad at the time) so I had no clue what the hell they we’re going on about so I looked it up as I found more out I couldn’t stop I was watching videos soon I was starting to wonder what it would feel like so then I knew I had gone to far.
Don’t beat your self up about it I’m positive u will be fine don’t let people say things to you like they did to me :D