1 Start by being relaxed. Masterbating does not work if you are not relaxed. Try listening to some music or watch a favorite movie or read a good book.
2 Slowly tease yourself. Stand in front of a mirror and watch yourself take off your close.
3 When you are fully undressed lie down in your bedroom or in your bathroom (if you don’t want to get caught).
4 Start slowly rubbing your breasts. Slowly work your way down to your "special spot".
5 Separate what looks to be like to lips. (you will now be able to see your cilt and vagina opening)
6 Start slowly rubbing the area around your cilt moving your way towards the cilt.
7 When you start to get turned on insert a finger or two in your vagina whole and move it in and out starting slowly but picking up speed.
Tips: For some people this does not work here are some helpful tips.
—- Lie down in your bath tub with your cilt under the bath faucet and the water run on your cilt. Most people enjoy this and find it very satisfactory.
—- Trying to masturbate your first time is an experiment. Find out what your body likes first. When you first start to masturbate you might want to be home alone to ensure that no one sees this.
—- Instead of using fingers you can try other CLEAN objects like brush handles, toothbrushes…
—- Make sure before inserting anything that is washed thoroughly including your fingers. If not it can lead to disease.
—- Make sure you know what could happen. Your hymen might rip (but this is totally normal. If it does not rip now then it will when you have sex) and you might see blood. Also, if you insert anything there could be scratching of your vagina wall which will lead to soreness.
But have fun and experiment with what you like! Good Luck! Hope it helped! :D